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| never give up |
Even if you
feel that it’s all over there is a way to get your ex back. But you have to be patient;
it will take 1-3 months. In most cases it will work.
Love never dies. I am sure you still keep good memories about someone from your past. That’s why it is very important to stay if not friends, then at least "not enemies" when you divorce or separate. These good memories can pull your partner back if you make everything right.
So you both decided to separate, or your partner left you for another woman. If you want him back remember, this is not the end of your love story.
1. Give him some time. Do not try to contact him in any way. It is very important! I know this is hard, but try to enjoy life without him, do something new and exciting, meet new people, and try to become happy without him.
2. First contact - a phone call you can make only if you feel that you are not mad on him anymore. Call him as you are just his friend, ask him how he is doing and tell him something exciting about yourself, especially what you have done recently.
3. If he didn't call you in a week after your first contact, call him again and ask if he wants to have lunch together. It is very important, that it should be just lunch - one hour time frame should sound safe for him.
4. If he says ok - great! Meet him for lunch. You should look great, happy, do not show any interest rather than just friendship. You can tell him about some guy, who really wants to date you, even if it’s just in your imagination.
When you are
done with your lunch, you should leave first. Tell him that you are very busy,
have a meeting or appointment.
Another
variant is that he says that he does not have time to see you, or he does not
want to. In this case you should say that this is fine, and then call him in a
week or two. If he still does not want to see you - than you just should move
forward and forget about him. But in most cases guy will say will meet you.
5. In case you already had lunch together, wait for 4-5 days. If he didn't call you, call him again. Ask him if he wants to meet for lunch again. 95% that he will say yes!
It is very
important not to blame him in anything at all. You should just look happy and
confident. Your goal is to make him want you back! You should show him that you
are a different person now. Not the one he left.
6. Next step is to invite him to do something that he always wanted to, or to go somewhere, where you two can have a great time together. After you spent time together, it is VERY IMPORTANT that you give an initiative to a guy. Man is a hunter, don't forget about it. Otherwise he might lose his interest very soon.
Good luck
and if you are patient enough in most cases you will get your husband or
boyfriend back!
