The Stages in a Relationship

Knowing the stages in a relationship helps you understand where you and your partner are at, and helps explain what might appear to be puzzling behaviours. They create a road map to a healthy relationship; there are six relationship stages, as follows:

Attraction stage

In this initial stage both partners are trying to get along and please each other; both of you are trying to make things work out. At this point, neither of you will have seen your respective bad sides as you will have both been on best behaviour! This is a time for romance, and butterflies in the stomach!

Disturbance stage 

In this stage you each start to notice the differences between the two of you. Conflicts start

arising however it can be sorted out fast. In this stage, the partners either deal with this or end up breaking up.

Moulding stage

Both partners accept and appreciate each other’s weaknesses; they avoid use of force and give up the mentality of love without struggle.

Stability stage

Both partners relax their boundaries and accept that they may never change the other partner. They start giving each other mutual respect and a deeper love ensues.

Surrender stage

Partners surrender to reality and accept that relationships too have their shortcomings. This is where they learn to love each other and truly feel connected to each other. It is an indication that you are both ready to commit long term to each other.

Complete trust stage 

This is the last stage; trust at this stage becomes unbreakable. Couples start working on projects, charity and they become a true team; this is apparent to all who see them.

What if you falter at one of these stages?

Communication is the most important thing here. Listen to your partner speak first without interrupting then air out your issues. You may have to accept that you believe in different things and find a way to come to terms with this differing of opinion rather than try to change your partner’s viewpoint.

Hopefully you'll now understand what point your relationship is at, and if you do I'm sure this knowledge will help you find the right partner!

If you are already married or in a relationship but you feel like your union is getting unhealthy or is leading to a breakup, here is great article that tells you How to Fix a Broken Relationship.

I also highly recommend to read these books because they have so much useful information about relationships between women and men, lots of great advice on dating, and how to make the right choice and stay happy in a relationship.